Get Anyone To Find You Irresistibly Attractive
Physical preferences are not the only factors that determine how attractive we appear to others, although without any other interaction “beauty” does take greater precedence. The techniques on Getting Anyone to Find You Irresistibly Attractive complement those discussed in the last post Getting Anyone To Like You…Without Fail . Numerous studies show that the more we like somone, the more attractive we tend to find them, this explains why you may find your self attracted to someone who is not remotely your type. This person most likely unwittingly enacted these laws causing you to find them simply irresistible.
1. EMOTIONAL AROUSAL This technique alone will be responsible for getting you more dates than any outfit, hairstyle or high-powered job ever will. It is a foundation of human behaviour that when our body produces adrenaline, feelings of attraction to those present and sexual desire often result. Adrenaline, produced through any state of heightened arousal- fear, excitement, exercise- generate and intensifies passionate feelings.(This does assume that attraction exists in some form at some level.) Anytime a person is aroused, such as through scary movies, amusement park rides or even exercise, her arousal will in part be attributed to whomever she is with. In effect there is a transference of state where the excitement she feels gets unconsciously translated into sexual desire and arousal. The next time you see a couple who are aesthitically mismatched, ask where they met. Chances are good that they met under circumstances where arousal was high… maybe at the gym, or while one person( the better-looking of the two) was nervous, apprehensive or excited about something.
2. WALKING STYLES Youth is often deemed to be factor of physical attractivness, but the good news for those of you who ar no longer spring chickens is that you don’t necessarily have to look young but merely appear young. The best way to do this is through good posture and your walking style.. walk a bit faster.
3. GAZING INTO A PERSON’S EYES. Did you that gazing into a person’s eyes can actually make the individual fall in with you. That’s the the conclusion of numerous studies on attraction and romantic love. In one particular experiment, two opposite-sex strangers were asked two gaze into each others eyes for two minutes.This study concluded that the act of simply looking into another’s eyes for only a few moments was enough for them to produce passionate feelings for each other.
4. THE LAW OF CONTRAST AND ASSOCIATION When you want someone to find you attractive your best bet is to initially meet the person by yourself or with you being accompanied by an attractive member of the opposite sex. This is because of the law of contrast and the law of association.
We don’t often judge a person by herself but in contrast with other people.This is intensified when meeting somone for the first time; we see and think of their physical attribites in comparison to those they are with. Many studies have been done in this area, including some that confirm that married men who have been recently looking at models in bathing costumes- find their own wives- less attractive.
Herein lies the mistake we often make, before somone has the opportunity to get to know you and be influenced by the other tactics-you will be judged by your physical beauty. So you need to put the odds in your favour- DO NOT put yourself in the company of those (of the same sex) who are more attractive than you, when you want someone to be interested in you.
Also when meeting this person, generally for the first time only, do not try to be in the company of terribly unattractive people of either sex. This is because of the Law of Association- where we tend to see a group as a whole and not as individuals.Therefore, to re-itterate your best approach is to be by yourself, or with an attractive person of the opposite sex.(The reason you can be with an attractive person of the opposite sex, is because the law of association takes precedence over the law of contrast when the members of the group are more different than they are similar. In other words your attractiveness is enhanced by this person because you are seen as “one unit”.
5.SELF ESTEEM AND ATTRACTION
This is a tactic to use if your own beauty is limited, as it will allow you to be seen initially as much more attracive than you might otherwise appear.
A study has shown that a woman who is introduced to a man will find him more appealing if her own self esteem has been temporarily injured. You should be aware that to a woman who has recently suffered a rejection you will appear more attractive to her. This is the law that is reponsible for the rebound effect.
Another way to slip under the radar is to approach her when she is with more attractive females whilst she is in this vunerable low self- esteem state.
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